Category: Married Life

  • Sex and money…

    Sex and money…

    Sex and money, not just the premise of most television shows these days.  Sex and money are also the core (or so they say) of the arguments most married couples ever have…and end up divorced over.  True as that might be, I think there are many more problems in between the two issues that can accelerate…

  • Why Men Cheat

    Why Men Cheat

    Please excuse my Tyler Perry-esque title. I just wanted to get straight to the point about why I wrote this. Unless you are like me and deliberately choose to ignore the news, chances are you’ve noticed the recent headlines captivating the Nigerian “media” lately. I wasn’t going to comment at first but I have gotten…

  • It’s So Hard to Say Goodbye…

    It’s been very hard to say goodbye to this blog. So I won’t. New posts dropping soon.

  • Husband…not Child

    Husband…not Child

    Repeat after me ladies. “Men are NOT children.” “My spouse is a fully grown man. NOT an infant.” “Husband NOT child!” Everywhere I look it’s the same theme. Whether it’s the television commercial that shows the inept father that somehow manages to wrap his baby in a diaper made of moin moin leaves, or the 50th article…

  • Coping with Crackers

    Coping with Crackers

    She says it just tastes sweeter under the covers… That’s the only reason she can give me when I keep asking her “Why?” Why do you insist on doing this?” I first noticed her strange behavior before we got married, so I can’t say I wasn’t warned. But even though she tried to hide it…

  • Even Lovers Need a Holiday

    Even Lovers Need a Holiday

    So we’re taking one. While we grab a much needed break, we ask you to stroll down memory lane with us…ah wait, I forgot to mention that it’s our blog anniversary. This month marks one whole year of blogging about our marital mishaps. Thank you for laughing and growing with us. Thank you for commenting…

  • When You’re Married To A Woman With Natural Hair

    When You’re Married To A Woman With Natural Hair

      When you’re married to a woman with natural hair… or a woman who wears her own hair…or a woman with any hair at all to be honest, you have to grow accustomed to certain things. Let me try to list a few. 1) Watching her Bathroom Turn into a Mad Scientist’s Laboratory  On any…