Category: Relationship Problems

  • That Will Never Happen To Us

    That Will Never Happen To Us

      “Never say never.” But we’ve all said it anyway. Before we married, we had a number of things that we imagined would never happen to us. Things we wrongly assumed only happened to careless people, or to people who couldn’t be bothered to take necessary prevention measures such as obsessively repeating: “Tufiakwa!” “It is…

  • Friend Zoned

    Friend Zoned

    My first clue should have been the text messages. Earlier in our marriage, Naijawife could send me up to 30 messages a day.  Mostly in the same theme.     I don’t mean to share too much information, but that’s what I was used to seeing from her.  Those mid-morning “thinking about you” reminders that…